Im 13 and need some advice about my mom not being around?? please help?

Well I'm sorry to hear about the hard time you are going through. There is a few options if you need someone to talk to. yes there is the school Counselor, there is also other family members. You should talk to your bestfriend as well. The more you talk about it, the less you will feel bad about it. There are people to call, like I don't remember the number but just go to google and look up online counselor or counseling hotline. the last thing i would recommend is a "suicide" hotline, not saying you are suicidal but its just someone random who counsels people your age for no charge. And they are suppost to help. So those are just some of the things you can do. I hope i helped.